98 percent men admit that during sex fantasizes about other women. Not because they did not like their partner.
So who is it? About porn stars, friends? Not at all. Recent studies show that men’s thoughts are occupied by sex stars during sex. Most of the respondents pointed to Scarlett Johansson and Jennifer Lawrence.
Another aspect of the study surprised us. It turned out that even in the case of sexual fantasies, men pay attention not only to the physicality of the dreamed woman, but also to her intellect – commented psychologist Seth Meyers in an interview with “Daily Star” .
Not only gentlemen dream of celebrities. Women also admit that thinking about stars during sex is no stranger to them. The percentage of women who admit it, however, is definitely smaller and amounts to only 11 percent. Their favorite actors turned out to be Chris Evans and Orlando Bloom. The study was conducted by a company with Tenga sex gadgets for 20,000. customers.
Fantasizing during sex is nothing bad. Of course, many partners may not like that their lovers are completely different, but psychologists argue that it is both necessary and fully normal .
Accepting the partner’s fantasy is very healthy. It’s proof that you give him freedom and do not force him to feel only attracted to you, “adds Meyers.
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Fear of orgasm is sometimes a problem of couples. Here’s how to avoid it
We must finally master this truth: any sex that all parties want can be a source of satisfaction. It does not have to be loud or outrageous. Here are some ways to get rid of the fear of orgasm.
Fear of an orgasm, which should not be confused with depression after intercourse, is a condition that often prevents us from achieving full sexual satisfaction. Yes, it happens more often than we think and that is why more and more often sexologists and psychologists talk about the orgasm of anxiety – fear of climaxing.
Rarely, although it happens, we are afraid of achieving orgasm (this probably happens more often to men) than its failure to achieve (more often women), but in fact all variants are possible.
You do not have to have an orgasm. Seriously
We are boring this difficult topic with boredom: our expectations and ideas about sex are shaped more and more by pornography. This can no longer be more available – if forty-year-olds remember the excitement of watching the crickets through the glass of the kiosk from the school days, today’s youth (and adults) have at their fingertips a free and anonymous video source with sound and high resolution.
And that sex is everyday taboo – we learn from them. Therefore, we think it’s normal that every sex ends with an intense, strong, loud and expressive orgasm, preferably both sides at the same time. Meanwhile, orgasm is not a mandatory position and is not a prerequisite for successful going to bed. The first step is to learn to think about it this way.
Talk to your partner
Regardless of whether our sexual fantasies are shaped by porn, models taken from the home or the art of Dutch painters of the 17th century, our partner will not know about them until we tell him or her.
While many lovers can successfully guess or learn what turns us on, which excites us, it is worth remembering that happiness can be helped in the simplest (well, not always …) of possible ways: conversation. Such exchange of opinions and information about dreams can be not only a good basis for successful sex, but also a kind of sexual act in itself. Especially that you can try it for example in the car while traveling on vacation (if only children in the back seat sleep).
Do not try to meet expectations
In bed everyone is a bit selfish and that’s how it should be. Of course, something – knight’s code for men, instinct for babysitting women – makes us focus on satisfying the needs of the other side, and in the case of sex, this is not only an element of honor, but also ambition. However, one must remember that a good lover, giving a satisfying experience, is also one who can take care of himself. Especially that such independence may be an additional stimulus stimulating the experience of a partner or partner.
Sharp words are not always the best
People who are concerned about the quality of their sensations usually suffer from stress (and acceptance) in giving (and receiving) satisfaction. This one results from the fear that we do not give ourselves enough. If in this situation, we also hear “please, go deeper!” or similar incentives to intensify the effort, they may act on us as a cloth for a bull. So, in this case, stressful.
So it is better sometimes – depending on the feeling – not to admonish a partner to give even more. A pretty good version of dirty talk may be “do whatever you like” or even “we can finish it if you feel like it”.
Focus on your body
Stress blocking the possibility of sexual satisfaction results from excessive contemplation about external circumstances – not only, but often, sexual experiences of the partner, but also other events in life, as well as frequent feelings of eg ridiculousness (thinking about what faces we make, when we feel intense pleasure).
In this situation caresses can be a kind of … meditation, understood in such a way that we focus on our body and the sensations that it sends. Not only can we easily see that we are better than we thought, but also who knows, maybe we will discover some previously unknown source of pleasure?
Hug. This is not an Olympics
We often think that to at least maintain the level of sex satisfaction, we need to increase the intensity of stimuli, and this in turn we associate with more and more promiscuous or even violent behaviors. But the sex of two loving people is to “practice” the closeness of two people.
It is good sometimes to simply incorporate this closeness into life simply by hugging and kissing, without ambiguous, bent, unbridled undertones.
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Professions that will help you find love on a dating site.
It is obvious that love should not look at the profession. You do not love the other person for making a beautiful manicure or for managing hundreds of subordinates at work. What works in real life, however, does not necessarily work on dating sites. These are because they offer us a lot of information about the person we are potentially interested in. And we will write to it, or – as in Tinder – “we will move it to the right”.
Then, of course, we choose those people whose professional profile or interests most suit us (theoretically). Those with whom the conversation can draw us. And those whose lifestyle is closest to ours – or the most interested in us.
According to Badoo, a dating application that can boast over 380 million users around the world, the most attractive work for men and women is the cook and the hairdresser respectively. The survey was conducted collecting data from 5,000 British Badoo users aged 18 to 30.
Which woman underestimates a well-cooked guy? Let’s agree, we appreciate even those who have not acquired cooking skills in the course of their lives, but at least they try. A man who not only knows but also likes to cook is a gem for which even non-believer women thank God.
The situation is different with the hairdresser, here the matter is less obvious. However, one can imagine that a (good) hairdresser earns a lot and will never be in a situation where there would be no work for her on the market. In addition, it is generally a patient, who likes and listens to other people. He can also be proud of his manual skills.
It turns out that in the following places the list of popular male professions among Badoo users is an engineer, entrepreneur, marketer and … artist. In the second place among the women chosen by men were nurses. And then, in turn: lawyers, entrepreneurs and teachers.
Obviously, the results of the study should be treated with a grain of salt, because similar surveys carried out by other dating services indicate other professions as the most attractive for users.
Among the most often “sliding to the right” women on the Tinder were physiotherapists, interior designers and entrepreneurs. In turn, the female sex was most interested in pilots and bosses. In the end, who would not like to say the famous words once: “my husband is a director by profession”?
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